Me clicking on your profile DOES NOT mean I like you or will message you 🙄
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#tattoos#baking#gym#piercings#travelling
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London (England), United Kingdom
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I'm here to meet guys 35 to 50 years old for dating, friendship and serious relationship.
About me
I have no agenda other than to meet genuine people and form genuine bonds leading to a serious relationship IF there is the right connection. If you just want to chat online, kill some time when you are bored and not on the same page as me, DO NOT message me or reply if I message you.
I am attracted to Asian men, specifically from East or South east Asia.
My next trip will be either to Thailand, Indonesia or Taiwan so I am happy to make male or female friends of any age from there, otherwise I’m not looking for friends from anyone from any other country. I can’t stress this enough as I am not on here to listen to your woes, be a chat mate, a good foreign friend 🙄 or any other pointless ( well pointless to me) liaison.
I was born and raised in the UK and I have zero reason or desire to leave my comforts here ( to those on here thinking I’m looking for a visa 🤷🏽♀️)
I enjoy the gym, theatre, travel and reading and trying different foods/dining out. I’m quite a creative soul and not a sheep that follows the crowd so I tend to do things differently than what is expected of me, stiff corporate types or overly formal simply isn’t me.
My music tastes tend to be jazz, neo-soul, Krnb.
About you
First and foremost,Please be sane and understand what I am seeking, but more importantly HAVE DATA/LOAD TO ACTUALLY BE ABLE TO HAVE CONVERSATIONS!
DO NOT message me to thank me for viewing! It is illogical as that is EXACTLY what people should be doing on here so unless you actually want to have a conversation don’t waste your time or mine to say “thanks” 🙄
If you know you can only message sporadically or once per day nonsense, please do not message me. My profile is straight to the point and clearly states my reason for being here.
Please have common sense/basic manners to know leaving a conversation mid flow without saying “bye” is rude. If you do not see this as an issue or think this is cool, do not message me. We will not get on.
Do not message me if you doubt my profile/think it is fake. If I was fake I certainly would not say I am hitting 50 and use a photo of a chubby middle aged black woman… albeit a cool and sexy middle aged, chubby black woman 😋
Be willing to meet if I am in your country! I am not on here for idle online chitchat. If you know getting around your own country will be a problem for you then do not message me.
Don’t ask for money. Your game is going to have to be out of this world strong or you have somehow impossibly managed to make me see stars to the point I turn stupid to think I will just send money 🤣 but hey, I am always up for a challenge!
Actually able to hold a conversation/ask questions.
Do not ask me for phone chat, video chat, Facebook ( which I do not have) or WhatsApp after a few minutes of messaging as I like to have time to make a connection. These are personal details that I don’t give out anyhow to any old person that asks. I also choose who I give my time to selectively, If I chatted on the phone with every man that asked I would never get anything done. It does not mean I am hiding anything, it means I am not collecting men like a hobby and I only want to meet sincere and focused men that are not on here collecting women half of whom are probably men/fakes or trying to scam you.
We live in different time zones so what may be ok time for you to chat may not be for me so be respectful of this otherwise I will block you if you try calling without asking if also convenient for me.
Understand that being my age does not equate to being old and desperate or desperate for a man, I am as fly and cool as they come and not some old fashioned washed up Tita🙄. As someone raised in the UK where I don’t encounter this, that kind of mindset I keep encountering on here perplexes me.
Realise that there is a time difference of at least 7 hours.
Be East or SE Asian. I am on an Asian site, interested in Asian people, I have no interest in anyone out of this criteria. Western dudes that have a problem with this ( or my profile in general) and have the urge to tell me so, PLEASE DO NOT. I am not interested in your opinion, If you don’t like it just keep it moving, however if you are going to comment please be man enough to give me the opportunity to respond and not hide after🙄
No game playing with wife in the other room dudes please. Don’t bother me if you are separated, I don’t care if it’s been 20 years, unless you are legally no longer married I am not interested, no “it’s complicated” men please, I have no baggage or complications in my life so please do not bring me your mess, if your partner/wife is a OFW that does not mean you are single. Men with partners = restrictions which will not work for me. No seafarers, pirates, or whatever you want to call yourself, I have zero interest in meeting a man that is away at sea most of the time.
Not ask about working in the UK or how to get to the UK. I am not an immigration officer so do not ask me.
Time wasters or any hint of wasting my time like only wanting to befriend me because I am from the uk/a foreigner will be blocked.
Enjoy fitness/going to the gym, is a welcomed bonus.
Personal info
5'3" (160cm).
