Personal info
5'8" (172cm) and a few extra kg / pounds.
Are You The One?
Location
San Diego (CA), United States [ show map ]
I'm here to
I'm here to meet girls 35 to 60 years old for dating, friendship and serious relationship.
About me
Greetings, my name is Ray and I am from southern California. I am Japanese/American, born and raised in California. I also lived in Hawaii (where most of my family is from) and have traveled to places like: Los Angeles, San Francisco, Texas, Las Vegas, Connecticutt, Taiwan, and the Philippines. I currently work in security services for a marketplace. I am also retired from law enforcement for almost 20 years of dedicated service.
***UPDATED '2025***
I am a widow to my late gf, who passed away in Dec. '2023. She was a filipina and from Cebu, Philippines. We were together for over 10 years, until her passing. It's still hard for me to accept, but I know that my late gf would want me to go on with my life and find a forever partner. This is why I am planning to visit Cebu in July '2025. First, to visit her burial site, so that I can have closure and move on with my life. And second, to hopefully meet someone while I am there. I just want to be honest and tell the truth. It's very hard for me to be here, but I want to live my life again.
Hoping to find my best friend and lifetime partner. **I prefer to find someone who is single with no children**
**PLEASE...IF YOU DON'T HAVE TIME FOR ME, AND NOT SERIOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP. PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME. MY TIME IS TOO PRECIOUS TO WASTE. I RESERVE THAT TIME FOR MY ONE AND ONLY FUTURE LIFETIME PARTNER. YOU MUST KNOW HOW TO COMMUNICATE....I WON'T WAIT FOR SOMEONE WHO CAN'T COMMUNICATE PROPERLY.** AND PLEASE DO NOT SOLICIT ME FOR MONEY...I WON'T DO THAT, UNLESS WE ARE ALREADY MARRIED**
***I prefer someone who has Viber or Whatsapp on their cell phone, so that we can keep in touch and communicate together. ***
About you
I want to meet a girl that is family oriented, God fearing, kind, honest, trustworthy, lovable, passionate, no drama or excess baggage, faithful to her relationship and independent. She should also have a sense of humor and intelligence. Not attached to ex-boyfriends. I want someone who is loyal and ready to make a lifetime commitment.