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Secret Agent undercover – licensed to kill, but mostly stuck in traffic. ☕
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I'm here to meet guys 40 to 55 years old for serious relationship.
About me
Me: ♎ Sigma, somewhat a workaholic, a business minded. ☕ Unlike most women, I speak my mind, letting logic guide me more than my heart. I hate fake and arrogant people, if I don't like you, you'll know. 😉
Imma homebody by nature, but I do love traveling, sightseeing, and trying street-food culinary. 😎 Imma foodie, I luv to cook, if u could handle spicy dishes I'll like u even more. 😍
And don't ever leave me in unknown territory without GPS, I might not return 🫨😵💫😠
I do believe I could be a supermodel 💃 if I was slimmer, taller, had a higher nose, longer legs, longer hair, basically born in a different body. Ha ha ha... Don't expect too much! 😅 🤭🫣, my stomach ain't flat 😝 If you expecting a slim, stylish woman with high-heels 👠 hold an iphone 🤳with branded bags 👜 ... 🫵 SKIP ME!
I’m not that kind of feminine 🤫—I’m not the woman who acts like the world’s ending cuz she broke a nail 💅 doing chores or freaks out cuz her hair 🙆 got a little wild in the rain. 🌧️ Ain’t nobody got time for that! My inner beauty and brain are worth way more than that drama.🤷☕
I have tattoos - a youthful stupidity that I can't fix.🤷 (and I've NEVER worked in a bar just because I have it!) - you guys are way too judgmental. ckckck... 😏
My Love Language (if it matters to you): FOOD. Yep, the fastest way to calm me down—especially if you’ve managed to mess up my day. Just saying! 😄
But on a more serious note, here’s the ranking:
Physical Touch: Forehead kisses, holding hands, cuddling—even in public. These little gestures are the sweetest and the bare minimum to show you care.
Quality Time: Whatever the plan is, I’m in. A big adventure or just binge-watching a Netflix marathon at home? I’m good with both as long as we’re spending time together.
Words of Affirmation: Beyond the usual “I love you” or “I miss you” (which are great, by the way), those thoughtful good morning or good night texts? Super cute. Don’t even pretend you don’t love them too.
Acts of Service: Relationships are a two-way street—it’s all about give and take. It’s not about keeping score but putting in effort is where counts.
And yet IF I'm not your cup of tea, no worries... I drink coffee anyway. It keeps me shining in my path. 👌🫶
Still here???🤔 Wah Ok, I have something more to tell 🔉
Some of you may be proud of an independent woman. Others may see us as a "threat".
Let me tell you something: The "MOST" of us are not so proud of being independent. We don't want to look strong either. We're always in survival mode. It's not like an achievement, you know. It's just a defense mechanism. We were not born this way.
Coz, I guarantee you, that all women want to be a baby, to be spoiled, to be taken care of. We just never have it. We never get it.
We're not a threat. This kind of woman, us, only need constant reassurance of your love not only in words, also in deeds.
If you still see us that way, maybe.... maybe it is you who are used to a falsehood and we are just too real, so real to deal with, and that is your problem. I can't help.🤷
P.S. I don’t have personal accounts on any social media or apps. But I do use WhatsApp, LinkedIn, and Instagram strictly for business—gotta keep it professional, right? 🤔
Oh, and fine, I admit I've a TikTok 🤷 Sometimes you just need to scroll mindlessly and remind yourself you're human. 😏😎
Don't ask for my number if you don't even know my name, my fave color, fave food, or how I take my coffee. Basic human decency, my friend. Without knowing these things, asking for my phone number is like coming to a party empty-handed. No dice. 😉 Pass the trivia quiz about me then I’ll decide when to share ✍️🥂
And yet, I assure you that I’m a real, living human being—fully equipped with limbs, anatomy, and senses. No robot vibes here... unless I haven’t had my coffee (yet) ☕🤖
***Have you really read all this? 😱 Are you that bored?🥴 Hit me up and tell me your zodiac sign 🌠 😉
About you
I’m on a mission for my "happily ever after," not some cheesy "once upon a time." (Yeah, yeah, cue the dramatic eye rolls and sarcastic slow clap—what a plot twist, huh?) 🤪🥴
Go ahead, laugh it up. 😌 I know it’s like finding a needle in a haystack, but spare me the lecture, okay? So zip it! 🤐
At least I’m out here making an effort, not just lounging on the couch waiting for Prince Charming to show up gift-wrapped with a bow on his chest. HAH! 😝😆
Simple analogy: "Every night we go to sleep without a guarantee of living tomorrow. Yet, we still set an alarm to wake up." - that's hope. 😇🙆
Religion/Faith/Belief (you named it) - believe what you believe, meet me halfway. Respect mine, I'll respect yours. That's all I ask! 🤝
My darkside: 20% an angel 👼, 80% an evil 😈
Lying to me is like juggling fire while blindfolded—I will find out. 🔥🕵️♂️ I’m basically the FBI’s cooler cousin, and if I’m still asking questions, trust me, I’ve already cracked the case. I’m just giving you a chance to fess up before it gets spicy. So, spill the beans, and we’re all good. LOL! 😏✨
Treat me like you wanna be treated.🥰
You treat me good, I'll treat you better. 🤗
You show no interest, I'll show no efforts.😑
I can be your sweet, clingy, hopelessly romantic, mischievous little angel 😇😍—but mess up w/ me? I’ll transform into your personalized nightmare on steroids. 😈 You won’t know whether to apologize or run for your life. 😏💀
You play games, I'll show you how to well played. 😎 We might dealing in the same hell just different devil, in the same game just different level, sweetheart 😉🥂.
Maannn, I sounds like a demon!😈🫣
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Are you still here??? Really?! 😱
Wah, I have to admit that you are full of curiosity. 🙃
Ok, this is serious one.🙂
⚠️⚠️⚠️ I'm not seeking casual arrangements or ambiguous relationships. If you are currently in an undefined or complicated relationship status, I kindly ask that you refrain from reaching out.
I believe in looking ahead rather than dwelling on the past, so if you're considering building a future with me, it's important to leave past baggage behind. Respect and mutual understanding are values I hold in high regard. ⚠️⚠️⚠️
Dear my future man,
"Trust" and "Loyal" are the most valuable and fragile things to earn. Once broken, it’s nearly impossible to restore fully. For those who choose to stay despite the cracks, they often find themselves questioning—wondering if the stories and behaviors from the past were ever true, and doubting if the next one will be the same.
Living in such uncertainty is not a path anyone wants to take. That’s why loyalty and honesty are matters. No matter how bitter the truth may be, it’s always better than the corrosive weight of a lie.
No one and nothing is perfect—that's just reality, we all know that. So, let's learn to compromise. If circumstances do not align with our desires, let us seek common ground and meet each other halfway.
I really appreciate the efforts, the process, the actions that match words - regardless the outcome, as long as we both still see what is worth fighting for, keep fighting.
I fight the voices in my head each day that tell me I’m not enough. Some days I fight just to get out of bed. But, I am a fighter. 😎👊
Another important for me:
"Communicate—don’t just talk."
Too often, people know how to talk, but have no clue how to truly communicate.☕🙎
"Respect is Respect."
Is all about understanding and appreciating each other. Knowing where to draw the line and honoring boundaries shows thoughtfulness and makes relationships so much better. If you truly love someone, respect shouldn’t have to be asked for—it’s something you give willingly, from the heart. I believe you are mature enough to understand this point. 😉🫶
Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’ve got some haystack digging to do. 🥂