Patto • 38
Patto
Patto • 38

Personal info

Age:
38
Gender:
Male
Location:
Adelaide, Australia
Appearance:
Casual
5'11" (180cm) and average body type.
 
Occupation:
Chef
 
Has children:
No
Wants children:
No
Smoking:
Non smoker
Drinking:
Light / social drinker
 
Relationship status:
Widow / Widower
Willing to relocate:
Yes

A great friendship may lead to something more.

Location

  Adelaide, Australia  [ show map ]

Some photos of me

I'm here to

I'm here to meet girls 18 to 49 years old for friendship and networking.

About me

If your first message is Hi or how are you I probably won't respond. Ask me a question anything. If you read below you will know how I am.


I once had a soul mate, it was the best thing ever. Having a human you can trust and talk with about anything. I am hoping to find someone again once my pain fades...

Trust
Honesty
I value most
I love people who are real not fake.

I hate people who are not true to their word and gossip behind your back.


I am still sad from the loss of my wife. I am looking to Create new friendships that may lead to something more one day. Building a relationship is a huge challenge, I never dreamed of having to start again.

Love to travel. Been to Indonesia, Philippines, Thailand,, Cambodia, Burma, Japan, USA, Cuba, Mexico, Canada, South Pacific Islands. That I can remember

Love animals have 3 dogs and 5 cats my family takes care of.

I don't want children.
I have a step son but he is adult.

Lived in Thailand for last 8 years although half the time in Australia. Now I'm in Australia for work and not sure what path my life will take

I can speak and understand basic Thai. I can also read a little bit. I was studying for a while but have been lazy.

I enjoy language a would like to continue to improve on Thai and possibly learn another.

About you

Some one who is real
Someone who can write a meaningful message.
Someone who is compassionate and caring
Someone with selfworth
Someone who is kind to animals
Someone who is willing to learn to trust even if they feel broken now.
Someone who is not high maintenance.
Someone who values family but doesn't need a child from me.


I might be the hardest challenge of your life. It take 2 to make something special. Never try never know.

Someone who can accept and not get jellous or bad feelings when I talk about my wife(that has passed away) or share story's or photos. I have 3 familys. Mums side, Dads side and Thai family. In return you can talk openly about your past or anything with me without judgement. Sometimes things are painful but sharing with another human you trust will make the pain go away. If you have never lost a partner or a child this concept may be hard to fathom.

She was taken from me suddenly and we had an amazing life together. I hope I find someone as special as her who can accept my past and help create a new one together. This maybe difficult and not easy, but no relationship is.
Having a deep connection with another human is the most magical experience and I can only dream to be lucky enough to experience this twice in a lifetime


If you want children, You can skip past me. I don't want to raise a family. We can be friends though. I want to live my life and have no regrets. Tomorrow may never come!