4iJin • 34
4iJin
4iJin • 34

Searching for My Love, My Peace, My Home.

Location

  Fresno (CA), United States  [ show map ]

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I'm here to meet girls 18 to 40 years old for dating, friendship, serious relationship and networking.

About me

Hello there!
I’m Cj—an INFP with an introverted soul.
After five years of being single, I’m ready to build a future with the right person and start a family.
I’m seeking a serious relationship that leads to marriage—no games, no BS.

I work remotely, so relocating isn’t an issue.
If we connect, I’d love to visit and live together to see if we’re truly compatible—because that’s where the real challenge begins.
And if we are, I just might not leave. Lol.😅
I’d love to learn from my partner’s culture, language, and traditions as we grow together.
With no parents to care for, my focus is on being the best partner and father possible.

One of my bucket list dreams is to complete the 7 Wonders of the World with my partner. I visited one of them, Chichén Itzá in the Yucatán Peninsula, Mexico, a while back and told myself that this is something I truly want to share with my significant other, making unforgettable memories as we explore the world together. So, I’m still waiting for the right one to make it happen. Maybe it’s you?

In my free time, I dive into history, documentaries, anime, donghua, C&K dramas, and reading manga or manhua.
When multitasking, I enjoy audiobooks on various topics—as well as listening to ghost stories. Lol.😅
I’m also into design—graphic and fashion—though I haven’t sewn in a while.

I’m working on my health and staying active this year.
I don’t listen to music much (unless I’m working out), but I’m open to new genres—just no sad love songs. Lol. 😅

People often think I’m Chinese, Japanese, or Korean—but I’m not, just FYI.
I’m not big on selfies, but if you want, we can exchange photos or video chat—no filters.

About you

I’m seeking a strong, kind partner with an open heart and thoughtful mind.
Someone ready to grow and evolve together—through honest talks, shared experiences, and unwavering support.

I want to build a future from scratch, creating a family of our own.
No disrespect, but I’m seeking someone without kids, as I wish to start this chapter fresh—just us two.

Communication is key—I need someone who knows how to express herself openly and calmly.
No short tempers, just patience and understanding as we navigate life’s ups and downs.

I’m willing to relocate so she can stay close to her family and never feel homesick.
I’ll embrace her culture, language, and traditions with an open heart, and I hope she’ll do the same for me.
Through mutual effort, we’ll blend our worlds, creating a bond rooted in love, respect, and empathy.

With trust and shared dreams, we’ll build a life filled with laughter, adventure, and peace of mind.

If this resonates with you but you’re not one to message first, no worries.
Just click "like"—and if the feeling is mutual, I’ll reach out.

Personal info

Age:
34
Gender:
Male
Location:
Fresno (CA), United States
Appearance:
Average
5'7" (171cm) and average body type.
 
Occupation:
A Student of Life, Always Learning, Always Growing
 
Has children:
No
Wants children:
Yes
Smoking:
Non smoker
Drinking:
Rarely drinks
 
Relationship status:
Single
Willing to relocate:
Yes
Education:
No Education
Religion:
Other